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Her teenage summer crush unexpectedly came back into her life. 'I felt like I was reconnecting with my best friend'

Vlad Dimovski and Iga Olszak met as teenagers on vacation in Greece, but lost touch. Then they unexpectedly reconnected a decade later. (Tomasz Ordza via CNN Newsource) Vlad Dimovski and Iga Olszak met as teenagers on vacation in Greece, but lost touch. Then they unexpectedly reconnected a decade later. (Tomasz Ordza via CNN Newsource)
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Years afterward, Iga Olszak often thought about the moment she first spotted Vlad Dimovski, on the sandy shores of Skotina, in Greece.

Iga was 16, Vlad was 18. He was laughing with friends. Then pushed his long hair out of his eyes, met Iga鈥檚 eye, and smiled.

鈥淚 remember feeling very excited about him,鈥 Iga tells today.

Iga first saw Vlad in the summer of 2005. She was on vacation from Poland, at a summer camp in Greece. Vlad visited Skotina every summer from his home in what is now North Macedonia. The beach, in the foothills of Mount Olympus, was a home away from home for Vlad and he was always surrounded by a gang of friends.

While Iga was intrigued by Vlad, she was 鈥渁lso kind of reserved.鈥 For the first few days, they circled each other, but didn鈥檛 talk.

Then, one evening Iga was sitting on the beach in a circle with her camp friends, while Vlad was sitting close by, in a separate circle, with his group.

鈥淎t some point we all started sitting together,鈥 recalls Iga. 鈥淭hen Vlad came up to me so he could talk to me, and we sat next to each other on the beach, chatting, having a conversation. And it went from there.鈥

Vlad noticed Iga right away, too. He had 鈥渟o many good memories鈥 of summers relaxing at Skotina beach. He knew all the regulars, and Iga stood out. He remembers the way she walked down the beach, recalls noticing her immediately, wanting to talk to her.

Once they did speak, Iga and Vlad quickly became inseparable.

鈥淓very day we spent time together,鈥 Iga recalls. 鈥淥n the beach, or going hiking, chatting鈥︹

The two communicated in English 鈥 a little tricky as Iga wasn鈥檛 as confident in the language as Vlad.

鈥淏ut Vlad was helping me with certain words so we could communicate better,鈥 says Iga.

Iga and Vlad say they gradually built a 'stable and strong relationship' after Iga moved to the U.S. (Iga Olszak via CNN Newsource)

Iga and Vlad spent the next two weeks in each other鈥檚 company. Looking back, Iga鈥檚 overwhelming memory of their time together was 鈥渇eeling very safe.鈥 She found Vlad to be kind, respectful, funny. She wasn鈥檛 exactly in love 鈥 they were technically just friends 鈥 but she had a pretty heady crush.

Vlad felt the same way. He describes their connection as 鈥渁 friendship, but also a willingness to be together.鈥 He felt like they were drawn to each other.

But both Vlad and Iga were realistic that this connection might not last.

鈥淲e had a really great time,鈥 says Iga. 鈥淏ut I was still in high school. We lived very different lives in terms of being in different countries. There was no way for us to have a future. So that鈥檚 also what I remember feeling 鈥 feeling like it was exciting, but also knowing there was an end to it.鈥

This end rolled around all too quickly. Iga and Vlad said their goodbyes when the camp came to an end. Social media was still in its early days in 2005, but the two exchanged email addresses.

Back home in Poland, Iga classified Vlad in her head as 鈥渏ust a friend.鈥

鈥淏ut even my mom remembers how excited I was when I got his first email,鈥 says Iga. 鈥淲e kept that conversation going for the next two years.鈥

Over that period, Iga and Vlad wrote back and forth about their thoughts on family, friends, travel, their studies, their hopes and dreams.

鈥淏oth of us were having our own lives, but we just felt connected,鈥 says Iga. 鈥淲e exchanged probably over 100 emails.鈥

鈥淚 couldn鈥檛 wait to receive an email from her,鈥 says Vlad. 鈥淭hey meant a lot to me.鈥

The two found other ways to stay connected, including chatting via instant messenger.

鈥淲e鈥檇 download songs and listen to the album at the same time,鈥 recalls Vlad. 鈥淭hen we鈥檇 sit all night, talking about the songs for hours.鈥

In time, Vlad realized he was talking more to Iga than any of his other summer friends 鈥 really more than anyone in his day-to-day life.

Iga had a similar realization.

鈥淲e spent a lot of time chatting and writing emails. We sent each other pictures of what鈥檚 going on in our lives,鈥 recalls Iga, who found herself often looking back at photos they鈥檇 taken together that summer, posing together.

Occasionally, Iga and Vlad would float the idea of meeting up again, but no concrete plans ever materialized.

And in time both Iga and Vlad entered relationships with other people.

鈥淎fter that, I felt like, 鈥業 cannot really meet up with you, because I have a boyfriend,鈥欌 recalls Iga. 鈥淚t felt like a great friendship, and I really wanted to meet him again 鈥 but I felt stuck in that I couldn鈥檛 do it, really.鈥

As their respective romances got more serious, the emails gradually died off.

鈥淎t some point, we just stopped having contact,鈥 says Iga.

But Vlad never deleted his emails from Iga. He often thought of her fondly.

Meanwhile, Iga always felt grateful for her friendship with Vlad, and sad that it had dwindled.

When Facebook became omnipresent, the two connected there. They communicated sporadically 鈥 one time when they realized they just missed each other in Germany, another time Vlad posted a throwback photo to the summer in Greece 鈥 but it was intermittent and surface level.

鈥淟osing touch was natural,鈥 Vlad reflects today. 鈥淚t comes with the distance.鈥

Iga and Vlad spoke regularly via video call after they reconnected. (Iga Olszak via CNN Newsource)

10 years later

Time moved on. Iga went to college, graduated and relocated from Poland to Germany. She got married, and then divorced within a year. It was a tough period.

Meanwhile Vlad鈥檚 work took him to the U.S., and he moved there permanently in 2015. Vlad saw the move as a new start following a recent break-up.

鈥淚 promised myself, when I go to the U.S., I won鈥檛 get into a relationship for at least a year,鈥 he recalls.

Vlad had only been living and working in Chicago for a month or so, when, out of the blue, a message popped up on his phone. It was from Iga.

She was transiting through the Republic of Macedonia (which changed its name to North Macedonia after a 2019 referendum) and had a layover in the airport, not far from Vlad鈥檚 hometown. She鈥檇 dropped him a message, on the off chance he might be around and interested in a catchup, 10 years on.

But Vlad was on the other side of the world, in the U.S. When he saw Iga鈥檚 message he went from excitement to disappointment in the space of a few minutes, surprising himself by how sad he felt to miss Iga.

Vlad鈥檚 reply 鈥 explaining he鈥檇 moved to the U.S., saying how he wished he could have seen Iga 鈥 started a back and forth between the old friends on Facebook messenger.

The messages 鈥 just like their teenage emails 鈥 went deep quickly. Iga and Vlad started talking every day, catching each other up on their lives, filling in the blanks over the past decade.

鈥淚t got really intense quickly,鈥 says Iga. 鈥淚 felt like I was reconnecting with my best friend, with someone very dear to me.鈥

鈥淚t was so nice and refreshing to talk to Iga,鈥 says Vlad.

Iga talked about her divorce, and Vlad mentioned he was also single. They felt connected to each other 鈥 just like they had when they were young, although neither necessarily assumed their connection had romantic potential.

But when, in early 2016, Vlad mentioned he was planning a trip back to Europe, to visit family, the idea he might stop by to see Iga in Germany almost went without saying.

鈥淭he day that he was coming to see me, it was very, very, very exciting,鈥 says Iga. 鈥淚 remember making banana pancakes for him. I woke up at five. I wanted to make him breakfast because he traveled overnight.鈥

Pancakes prepared, Iga drove to the airport to meet Vlad.

鈥淭he moment I saw him again was probably the best day of my life,鈥 says Iga. 鈥淭he emotion was really, really intense. It was even better than I imagined.鈥

Vlad recalls being overwhelmed by how surreal it was 鈥 and yet it also just felt right.

鈥淪he looked amazing,鈥 he recalls. He knew what Iga looked like, he鈥檇 seen photos, but he realized he鈥檇 forgotten what it was actually like to be in her presence.

Plus, they鈥檇 both grown up. They were in their late 20s. They both were 鈥 and weren鈥檛 鈥 the same people they鈥檇 been a decade before.

Iga showed Vlad around her city, Bielefeld, in northwest Germany.

鈥淚t was a lot of talking,鈥 says Vlad. 鈥淲e had a great time. You could see there was something going on. It was a short period of time to understand if we鈥檙e meant for each other, or if we want to build a relationship. But it felt good.鈥

Vlad came up with a moving and meaningful way to propose to Iga. (Iga Olszak via CNN Newsource)

Next steps

While Vlad and Iga were together in Germany, they talked about the potential of Iga visiting Vlad in the U.S.

A few weeks later, they connected on a video call to talk about this plan, and discuss where things stood between them.

Iga initiated the conversation.

鈥淚 knew I鈥檇 fallen in love with Vlad,鈥 she says. 鈥淚 knew I wanted to be with him, but he was more reserved. So I just felt like I needed to know, 鈥榃here do we stand?鈥欌

As someone who鈥檇 gone through a divorce, good communication was important to Iga.

鈥淚 felt a lot of shame about what had happened to me,鈥 she says.

She鈥檇 opened up to Vlad about her previous relationship, and he鈥檇 been understanding and supportive.

鈥淗e created that space for me where it felt really good and I finally felt okay to say the truth,鈥 she says.

It was one of the many reasons Iga had fallen in love with him. The thought he might not feel the same way was heartbreaking. But Vlad assured her that wasn鈥檛 the case 鈥 not remotely.

鈥淚 was just really scared to get hurt,鈥 says Vlad today. He was concerned about the realities of maintaining a long-distance relationship.

鈥淚 wanted to be with Iga. But I was trying to live in the moment,鈥 Vlad explains. He was worried labeling things, moving too quickly, could derail matters. But when Iga voiced her concerns, Vlad assured Iga he loved her too, and said he also wanted to try to make their connection work.

So Iga booked her plane ticket to visit Vlad in Chicago a couple of months later.

That visit was a turning point.

鈥淎t that point, we were very serious,鈥 Iga says.

In May 2016, Iga took the plunge and moved to the U.S. on a more permanent basis. She told herself that if it didn鈥檛 work out, she could always go back to Europe.

But she and Vlad wanted to give their romance a proper try, so Iga applied for a work visa that would allow her to live in the U.S. full time.

Iga鈥檚 parents were encouraging. Her mother remembered how happy teenage Iga was whenever she received Vlad鈥檚 emails.

鈥嬧滻 had full support from my parents, and they were very excited for me,鈥 says Iga. 鈥淏ut my brother was very anxious, like, 鈥極h my god, you met him on the internet.鈥欌

Iga told her brother that wasn鈥檛 strictly true 鈥 she鈥檇 known Vlad since she was 16. But she appreciated moving to the other side of the world to be with him was a big step.

鈥淭he first six months we were just kind of learning how it feels to be together and to have that life together,鈥 says Iga. 鈥淚t was definitely a tricky position. We are both from different countries, and left our countries to live in a separate country.鈥

鈥淎nd I鈥檇 never lived with anybody in my life other than my family,鈥 adds Vlad. 鈥淚鈥檇 never had roommates, never lived with a girlfriend in a shared flat. I鈥檇 always lived on my own. It was definitely an adjustment.鈥

Iga and Vlad also recreated the photo with their kids in tow. (Iga Olszak via CNN Newsource)

Developing a stable relationship

Iga and Vlad only grew more sure they were meant to be as the months rolled on.

鈥淲e developed a great, stable and strong relationship,鈥 says Iga. 鈥淲e needed to depend on each other. We just had each other in our lives in the U.S. We didn鈥檛 have any family there, neither me nor Vlad, so we created that little spot together.鈥

Iga started building the foundations for a life coaching business. The couple relocated from Chicago to Florida, then regretted the decision and returned to the familiarity and comfort of Chicago.

Somewhere in between, Iga discovered she was pregnant.

Children were something both Iga and Vlad had hoped for and talked about early on, but Iga鈥檚 pregnancy was unexpected. It was a surprise 鈥 but a good one.

Midway through Iga鈥檚 pregnancy, Vlad鈥檚 beloved grandmother passed away, and he had to fly back to North Macedonia.

As he waited for his flight, Vlad sat at the airport reflecting on life, loss and love. His grandparents had shared a great romance, one he always hoped to emulate.

鈥淭hey were an example of true love to me,鈥 says Vlad.

Vlad knew he wanted to spend the rest of his life with Iga. He thought about their first meeting on the beach in Greece. An idea started to develop.

鈥淚 wanted to propose in Greece,鈥 he says. He called a friend and asked to borrow their car, explaining he had a plan brewing. The friend offered to drive Vlad to Skotina beach.

鈥淪o me, my friend, his girlfriend and my brother, we drove over there,鈥 says Vlad. 鈥淚t was September, out of season. I went to the spot where Iga and I met, and I recorded a video.鈥

In the video, Vlad spoke directly to the camera, recounting meeting Iga when they were teenagers. How it felt to reunite a decade later. How much she meant to him. His excitement at their upcoming child. His hopes for their future.

鈥淭hen I wrote, on the sand, the words: 鈥榃ill you marry me?鈥欌 recalls Vlad.

Later on, back in the U.S., Vlad took Iga for dinner, requesting a private table at the restaurant. Then, he took out his phone, loaded up the Greece video and pressed play.

Iga was moved to see the beach again, touched by Vlad鈥檚 words on the screen, but she had no idea where it was going.

鈥淭hen, at the end, I see the beach, where he鈥檚 written: 鈥榃ill you marry me?鈥欌 recalls Iga. 鈥淚 just started crying. Then he gave me the ring.鈥欌

Vlad had also written Iga a letter 鈥 he鈥檇 been inspired by his time at home, and recollections of his grandfather 鈥渨ho always wrote letters and notes about how he felt.鈥

In Vlad鈥檚 letter to Iga, he described how important she was to him and how it felt to visit the beach where they met, all these years later.

Some of the things he wrote down he鈥檇 never really said to her before 鈥 how he鈥檇 felt the moment he first saw her. The way he remembered her walking along the sand. How he鈥檇 saved all their emails.

鈥淚t was so beautiful and romantic,鈥 says Iga. 鈥淎nd then this beautiful video on the beach, when Greece is so symbolic to us鈥︹

Iga and Vlad welcomed their son, Luca, in 2018. The couple got married a month later 鈥 a small ceremony, with only their close family in attendance 鈥 and welcomed a second child, daughter Klara, a year later.

In summer 2024, Iga and Vlad recreated this photo of the two of them from 2005. They're photographed in the same spot in both pictures. (Iga Olszak via CNN Newsource)

A recreated photo

Today, Iga and Vlad still live in the U.S., where they鈥檙e raising their kids with an international outlook. Iga runs a and works as a project manager for a tech company, while Vlad鈥檚 now the director of operations for a freight brokerage.

The couple are pretty established in Chicago, but they still regularly visit Europe.

鈥淚t鈥檚 very important for us as a family to maintain those relationships with our family,鈥 says Iga. 鈥淓ven though we are so far away, we still want our kids to know what Poland is, to know what Macedonia is, to know Europe.鈥

This past summer, Iga and Vlad returned to Greece together, taking the kids to the beach where they met for the first time.

The couple have a favourite photo from summer 2005, of the two of them standing by a blue door. Iga鈥檚 joking around, pouting, while Vlad鈥檚 gazing at her.

鈥淚t鈥檚 an important photo,鈥 says Iga.

This summer, the couple recreated the picture, 19 years later 鈥 with the help of one of Vlad鈥檚 longtime friends, who was there when they met. The group found themselves all reminiscing on that summer.

鈥淵ou cried when she left,鈥 said the friend to Vlad. Iga raised her eyebrows at her husband 鈥 he鈥檇 never admitted that before.

Then, Iga and Vlad posed in the same spot, by the blue door, with their two kids in tow.

鈥淚t was really special,鈥 says Iga.

Iga and Vlad also marked the moment by getting matching tattoos to symbolize their meeting, depicting the ocean waves and nearby Mount Olympus. Iga鈥檚 tattoo is on her left arm, Vlad鈥檚 on his right. They might lose their wedding rings, or forget to wear them, but the couple figured these tattoos would last forever, always symbolizing their love.

Iga says the summer in Greece was very meaningful.

鈥淚 saw the mountain, and right away I just felt very emotional, because this is the spot where I met Vlad,鈥 she says.

She enjoyed being there with their friends, treasured the time with their kids, but she tells Vlad today she also had the urge 鈥渏ust to lay down on the beach with you, and have you only for me.鈥

It was strange, Iga says, to reflect that she wasn鈥檛 a teenager anymore, enjoying a summer crush. Life had moved on, turned into something she could never have anticipated, yet is so grateful for.

鈥淚 think my younger self would be very proud and happy,鈥 Iga reflects. 鈥淚 had a different life in between. I had another marriage. And sometimes I would kind of regret things. But you cannot regret anything, it had to happen for you then to find yourself in this situation. Everything in my life brought me to this moment.鈥

Today, Iga and Vlad both feel like everything happened the way it was supposed to, in the end.

鈥淚鈥檓 not usually a believer in those things,鈥 says Vlad. 鈥淏ut with everything we鈥檝e been through, and then everything leading back to each other 鈥 I cannot believe it was not meant to be.鈥

鈥淥ur story is, for us, a foundation,鈥 says Iga. 鈥淚 believe that even if we get into crazy fights or misunderstandings or whatever is going to happen in our life, we are always going to remember where we came from, what we have built, and why it鈥檚 so important.鈥

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